mylifebyandrearaven

  The other night I was at home on my own sitting in my arm chair wearing a long red dress and feeling fabulous! I thought about how hard it would be to describe to someone who does not understand or even accept my way of life. This is not a fetish or weird and certainly not 'creepy'.  The truth is it is just me expressing the female within me, when I am like this I feel whole, I am the complete person, I am me........ I can understand for someone outside the trans umbrella this is a difficult concept to understand, if you were born in the gender you want to be in your life the path is relatively clear. However if you were born into a gender that is not authentic to your true self then life is very different. So how could I explain this to someone that sees life very differently to me?  I think this is what I may say: Consider for a moment if things were very different for you, so talking from my personal experience, consider then if you will a time when you never fitted in no